harald42

I'm very interested in french kissing, oral (giving) I'm most interested of all in spanking, especially of sensual or erotic varieties. If you enjoy giving spankings, I am interested in getting spanked in different positions some time, then, finally (slowly and erotically), leading to an orgasm.(so in that case it would be instead of sex) I am interested in experiencing different moods, different positions, different implements, different rhythms. long and slow, or fast and furious. Being held down or restrained, or, with some squirming and wiggling interruptions. Being spanked in silence, or, with verbal domination. For erotic spanking, in order to be spanked to an orgasm, not all types of spanking work. it usually should be deliberate and slow enough, not too rushed. it should include some pauses from spanking, with gentle teasing strokes (along the bum crease is especially erogenous ) Spanking does not have to involve domination, I believe domination is different from spanking, but I am also interested in it, for example taking control and if you gave instructions, and not asking directly what I want. Maybe instructions on pleasuring you, or positions, or crawling. However, I would much prefer to experience some part of a girlfriend experience: eg licking you, if you enjoy it, if not kissing. maybe with a dominant element, like you giving instructions about it. Apart from the above, I'm not interested in most forms of humiliation : my ideal is to be arousing rather than disgusting to a woman, like one who spanked me while pleasuring herself, or one who had a mirror carefully positioned ("come over this side so I can see your bottom in the mirror") My fantasy dominant girl is sexually motivated, she is interested in finding out my fantasies and responses but knows what she wants for herself. She might ask what was attractive in her profile and tells me about her desires and preferences. She is aroused (preferably thrilled) by spanking or CP, maybe by the sight of a guy in wrist or ankle cuffs, or in slave/submissive positions, and likes to tease and caress. She is an "ass girl" who wants to do things to asses (maybe also to mouths) She likes men and to seduce them, but also likes to explore, insert things, take liberties, make comments, give instructions, give commands, and make demands. She is quite exact and specific in her instructions, to adjust a position or perform something to be just how she wants it. A little sadistic, she wants responses for her to enjoy, but uses pacing, tempo and variation. She is interested in me, but would not ask what I wanted her to do: instead she would ask: if I have experienced some X or Y and how I responded, or if I had fantasized about it, without making any promises. I'm English, slim, 6' fair skinned, long blond hair.